![]() I think the way my ex left me showed none of the love of an actual friendship, so an offer or desire to be friends on her part seemed pretty disingenuous. It depends on how things end to some extent. ![]() Outside of the kids we have zero reason to be, because we share nothing in common beyond our kids. I'm friendly with my ex-husband, but we aren't friends. Were they saying you're friends with all of your exes or was someone-I don't know who they is-saying that about themselves? Regardless, if both parties mutually agree to break up there can be friendship. Likewise with me.īeing friends with all one's exes I think is just an unrealistic standard. My husband has two other ex-wives and third cheating ex that he basically told me once he would be content to never see again. She married someone else, my husband is friends with both of them, we all get along great. But they're both artists who work in the medium, and they were over each other and back to being friends long before I ever came on the scene. See I know only one person who is friends with one ex and that's my husband. I'm just wondering because they all told me: "I'm friends with all of my exes" and I started wondering today for whatever reason. I've moved on big time (moved countries, dating someone new. You deserve to be present in the here and now, moving on with your life, and finding those people who you gladly maintain a relationship with for the rest of your lives. Hoping that an ex will sit up and notice it's been years since you spoke to them or were present to be found is a colossal waste of your valuable time. I think your time is better spent focusing on healing and moving forward. I don't want or need them in my life, because I have truly moved on, healed and have better in my life now. Truth be told, I don't want to be visible or findable to any of my exes dumper or dumpee alike. ![]() There is no reason on earth and a whole lot of bad ones to remain in touch or visible to an ex. Breakups happen for a reason-the relationship was broken.Īs to radio silence for years, well yeah they had better do that. I also wonder that about childhood friends and old coworkers. Man why didn't I dump him and date that cute guy that was my girlfriend's brother instead?" Occasionally I might wonder whatever happened to that boy in high school or so and so that I dated. I will wonder things like, "I hope he got therapy and isn't rotting somewhere in prison." (Abusive ex) More often though thoughts just go towards the angle of "Ugh, I had a relationship like that once.
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